All was fine and dandy. We had highs and lows; people came and went but it was rare. It all stated in 2019/2020, it was said prior if the new appointed director took over there would be mass exit. Well, it happened, we became revolving door. I stayed to myself and learned the new position. I was thankful to be working in a place I thought I could grow and retire. Then the first issue, co-worker called me a slang. Yes, I am from the County/Country, we ride horses, and I drive a Jeep. Nope I am not racist, but if the shoe was on other foot we all know I would have been suspended or fired. She got slap on wrist. OK, moving on let’s get past this. I casually looked for other advancements, but I really liked working here and didn’t want to leave. I wanted to stay and get along with said co-worker. she was funny at times. we kind of acted like sisters I though. I knew she was looking, but whatever. I was not in any hurry or felt threatened. We were without direct supervisor briefly due to ours retired, then one came in briefly and left due to deployment reassignment. So, rock on we have more tit for tats, Division supervisor gets frustrated with us, mind you I am still pulling strings trying to learn from this woman. She refuses to show me things about our area of responsibility because she thinks I am goanna take her job. Girl, we are the same level, you just have seniority. Stop it! If you left the office today and Lord help something happened who’s going to cover down, and vice versa! (Backstory, I use to work as 911 dispatcher, I know things happen unexpectedly every day!) I tried explaining this to her. Anyway, rock on we finally get a new guy, he comes in and rocks it! We hit it off, I cling to him, and I am learning stuff so fast my old brain cannot absorb it! He is leaning on me to show him the ropes of our organization, etc. I been there 7 years and worked 2 different areas everyone has told him you need to know something go see me. All personnel come to me for anything, probably another reason my co-worker was jealous. Rock on New supervisor starts wearing on co-worker, I am unaware at time because she won’t talk to me. I brush it off and focus. Supervisor is showing me all kinds of new stuff I have been begging to learn. I’m like yeah finally. Co-worker transfers to new job, I’m like ok that’s what she wanted, I will get newbie, and we will set this up right. New hire comes in last maybe 6 weeks, he’s on her hard. I’m like wait what just happened? Where did Mr. Nice guy go? He has gone from buying lunches and coffees to just straight up being a We are trying to restructure this AOR here you got to give us time to adjust and train. It all went to Hell and hand basket after that. New hire leaves, I am solo for over a year. During that year, my marriage of 20 years is falling apart, we start counseling, my parents are involved in a near fatal car accident. One is hospitalized for 4 months between hospital and rehab, the other has to have round clock care and can’t drive for 6 months. My 17-yr old son homeschools and moves in wit said parent to care for them. Still trying to repair my marriage. We lost everything we owned in a barn fire; I was harassed about how I called out during the fire and not following protocol for him. Then my brother is diagnosed with Stage 4, End of life Cancer. I got put on a suspension for lackluster quality of work, made it through that and performance review came out successful. Rock on finally get another new hire, 2 weeks in same crap starts, new hire is older and former military, refuses to put up with it. Starts talking EEO, i made mistake of supporting the suggestion and filed first. BOMB went off!!! now I am 3 months later and had to leave, silver lining my health mentally and physically have improved. my husband and I have repaired our marriage a year and half later. He stands behind my discussion and supporting me. My brother is hanging in there my parents are recovered not fully but managed. God has a plan, and he never gives us more than we can handle. My husband is having to learn how to handle me with gentle hands as his former behaviors and my boss have both given me PTSD along with all the other family Trama. Though he is my rock and superhero!